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In relationships most of us think with our emotions rather than our minds. But to think with our feelings instead of our minds puts us in an unresourceful state that Colin Wilson, describes as being upside-down. When we view relationships as opportunities for creativity, they always get better. When our relationships get better, we as individuals become more motivated than we may already be!

Any time you take a relationship problem into your mind, you have unlimited opportunities to get creative. Conversely, when you send a relationship problem down the elevator into the lower half of the heart, you risk staying stuck in the problem forever. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't feel anything...feel everything!! Be sure and notice your feelings. Just don't think with them. When there's a relationship problem to be solved, travel up your ladder to the most creative you. You'll soon realize that we create the relationships we have in our lives; they don't just happen.
"We are each of us angels with only one wing" said the Italian artist Luciano de Crescenzo, "and we can only fly embracing each other."